LAKEWOOD.
Established suburb. Mature evergreens.
The neighborhood Eddie actually lived in.
Established suburb. Mature evergreens.
The neighborhood Eddie actually lived in.
The way Eddie would take you through it if you were here in person — starting in the neighborhood he lived in.
I rented a house in Oakbrook in 2015 without ever setting foot in Washington. The listing had a Puget Sound view and a pool — that was enough. Olivia was three. I didn't realize until we got there that I'd accidentally picked one of the best pockets in Lakewood. Quiet streets, mature trees, neighbors who knew each other. The kind of place a stranger could move into and feel like a neighbor by the second week.
Lakewood isn't where you go for new construction. It's where you go for established. Mid-century houses, 1990s remodels, the occasional craftsman that's been on the same lot for sixty years. Evergreens so tall they keep half the neighborhood in soft shade. If you want a master-planned subdivision with matching mailboxes, Lakewood will frustrate you. If you want a house with character on a real lot, it's the right shelf.
Half of Oakbrook is built around water views. American Lake on one side, Puget Sound on the other. We took Olivia to the YMCA in Lakewood for swim lessons, then drove ten minutes to the splashpark on the Tacoma waterfront on weekends. The water doesn't feel like an amenity here. It's just part of how the neighborhood breathes.
An Oakbrook Saturday at 9 AM. Garage doors up. Somebody mowing. A retired CW5 across the street walking his dog. Two doors down, an Army doctor I'd deployed with in Afghanistan — I didn't know he lived there until I moved in. That's the part you can't photograph. The military gravity of the place. You don't have to find your people here. They're already here.
"I lived in Oakbrook with Olivia when she was three. The view of the Sound from the porch is what sold me. The neighbors are what kept me. Ed and Chere across the street, Dawn and Terry next door, Tanvi and Rahul a few houses down — I picked the rental for the view and ended up with people. That's Lakewood when you land in the right pocket."
"What sells Lakewood for incoming families is what Eddie says about the neighbors. You don't get that in a brand-new subdivision — those take five years to develop a community. Lakewood has had sixty. That's the part I make sure my buyers actually feel before they sign."
Lakewood is the established suburb directly north of JBLM. It's the neighborhood you choose when you want a house with character on a real lot, mature trees, and military neighbors who already know how to be neighbors. Most of the soldiers I knew at JBLM didn't end up in Lakewood — most went to Lacey or one of the new subdivisions south of the base. The ones who landed in Lakewood usually stayed.
I won't pretend the whole city is the same. Some pockets like Tillicum and Springbrook face challenges that make them a harder fit for most incoming families — older housing stock, higher crime rates, more transient population. Those are honest realities, not deal-breakers, and I'd never tell a family who already lives there that their street isn't theirs. But if you're moving sight-unseen on a PCS clock, those aren't the pockets I'd point you toward. Oakbrook, the streets near American Lake, and the Steilacoom-adjacent edges are where most military families I worked with landed and stayed.
The market reality at JBLM during my tour was punishing. Twenty offers on a property was normal. Cash buyers waiving inspections, fifty thousand over asking — VA loan buyers got crushed. The smart play was finding houses that didn't show well on the eye but had the bones for a project. One family I worked with bought a house ridden with animal urine. Carpet ripped out, scrubbed to the studs, fresh paint. They sold three years later for almost two hundred thousand more than they paid. That's the kind of move Lakewood rewards if you have the stomach for it.
Here's what I wish someone had told me in 2015: buy more, hold longer. Even if a rental is taking a hundred dollars a month off your bottom line, somebody else is paying down your mortgage. The mortgage is a bucket — someone else fills it, and when you sell, you take what's in it. Lakewood is the kind of neighborhood where holding pays off. The lots aren't getting any bigger and the trees aren't getting any taller anywhere else.
Median Home Price: ~$469,000–$538,000 for Lakewood overall. Oakbrook specifically runs $545,000–$549,000 (varies by lot, view, and condition).
Typical Inventory: 3 to 5 bedroom single-family homes, mostly 1,600 – 2,800 sq ft. Mid-century and 1980s/90s construction dominates. New construction is rare.
Lot Sizes: Generally larger than the new subdivisions south of base. Quarter-acre to half-acre is common; waterfront and view properties run larger.
Days On Market: Tighter than most JBLM-area markets. During hot cycles, well-priced homes move in days with multiple offers — sometimes well over asking, sometimes cash.
Commute To JBLM: Most Oakbrook-area families use Liberty Gate (I-5 Exit 120) — typically 10–15 minutes door to gate in normal traffic. Add time during PCS season and 0700 weekday mornings.
School Zone: Most of Lakewood falls in Clover Park School District. The Oakbrook and northwestern edges sit in Steilacoom Historical School District — see the Steilacoom page for the schools-quality framing.
All figures reflect local MLS data and are approximate. Verify current numbers with your agent before making decisions.
Where you'll grocery shop: Lakewood Towne Center anchors most of the everyday runs. Safeway, Fred Meyer, and a Costco a few minutes off Bridgeport are the standard rotation. Most Oakbrook residents are 5–10 minutes from any of them.
The local kid stuff: The Lakewood YMCA is the unsung hero of family life here — pool, programs, indoor play space for the rainy stretch (which is most of the year). Fort Steilacoom Park is the biggest green space in the city, with trails, dog area, and the off-leash hill. Tacoma's waterfront splashpark and the children's museum are both 15–20 minutes north.
Friday night dinner: Most folks drive into Tacoma for a real restaurant scene. Lakewood itself has solid casual options along Bridgeport and around the Towne Center, but the sit-down dinner crowd usually heads north on I-5.
School pickup rhythm: Steilacoom Elementary (where Olivia went for kindergarten) is small enough that the staff knows your kid by name within the first month. Clover Park's larger elementaries run a little more chaotic. Pickup line varies by school — ask your agent which one your address actually feeds before signing anything.
Saturday mornings: Garages open, dogs out, kids on bikes between cul-de-sacs. The neighborhood operates without performing. Most of your neighbors are some flavor of military — active, retired, civilian DoD — and that gives the place a default rhythm a lot of suburbs don't have.
The weather honesty: Three months of the year, the Pacific Northwest will sell you on itself. The rest of the year, the cold mist will wear on your soul, literally. Plan for it, dress for it, light your house for it — and the rest is fine.
What you won't find: A walkable downtown, brand-new construction at scale, or a flat commute on I-5 during PCS season. If those matter most, DuPont or one of the new southern subdivisions might fit better.
Lakewood has more rental inventory than most JBLM-area neighborhoods, but Oakbrook specifically runs ownership-heavy. Rentals exist throughout the broader city — single-family homes, townhomes, and a handful of duplexes — but the desirable pockets see tight inventory at any given moment.
What's typically available: 3-bedroom, 2-bath single-family homes priced for mid-grade BAH. Pricing varies by season, condition, and which Lakewood pocket. Current rental ranges should be verified against active listings, which we keep updated on the site.
For JBLM families on BAH: 2026 BAH at JBLM runs significantly higher than most CONUS bases — E-5 with dependents at $2,556/mo, W-3 at $3,126/mo, O-3E at roughly $3,300+/mo. Lakewood rentals generally fit within those rates for most ranks with dependents. Run the numbers against your actual BAH before locking in a tour.
Lakewood sits directly north of JBLM along I-5, the established host community for the installation. Most Oakbrook-area families use Liberty Gate (Exit 120) — 10–15 minutes door to gate in normal traffic.
Tacoma is 9 miles further north and serves as the cultural and commercial anchor for the whole area. Steilacoom and the Puget Sound waterfront are immediately west. Olympia and the Lacey neighborhoods are 15 miles south down I-5. The base, the Sound, and Tacoma form the triangle most Lakewood families actually live inside.